Thursday, March 08, 2007


I'm not good at counselling people. I'm not good in using words that can encourage people. but I really hope that the things I've said to u makes sense. don't push urself too hard. do thing one at a time. slowly do and hit ur goals. I know u don't like to do things slow (as u always scold and blame me for doing things slow), but it's not a bad thing ma. isn't it better to have it slow and steady rather than u keep rushing and pushing urself, and one day u find that u still don't do it good and started blaming urself. then u will think alot that in this area or that area u didn't do it well.. it's good that u wanna hit ur goals and to achieve it, but sometimes people will fall down. the road is not so easy to walk even though u are very careful. in times u will fall. but don't stop there and kept thinking about how u fall. stand up and continue walking to the place that u wanna achieve. as i've said it to u, don't think about how badly or how under achieving u are right now. press forward. what is important is the things u are doing now and in the future. if u keep having the old problems that is in ur mind, u won't be able to succeed and u won't be able to go far cos the problems are already there and u can't do anything. I would rather u use that split second of time to think of how u gonna make it better, how u gonna achieve it to hit ur target and how u gonna stand up and do what is ur role as a chairman. Rather u keep thinking the past of how u are so under achieving etc etc... u know how i fell when u always tell me how down u are... I really don't know how to consol u, how to make u happy and how to not make u think of the unhappy stuffs. and sometimes I'm not in the good mood, and always vent my anger. but whenever I receive ur msg, I'm so lost. cos I can't possibly throw my tantrum at u when u are feeling down. sorry if I didn't do a good job. sorry if I didn't encourage u or what cos I really not good at words. really hope to see that confident u again...